There is no doubt that most girls end up dating complicated guys because they are everywhere. They are sort of bad guys with a bit of honesty. They move according to their convenience. Sadly, these are the traits that make these boys attractive to us. And girls date them and are evidently heartbroken.
In the midst of all this, it is the simple or uncomplicated guy that suffers and is often friend zoned. So here we are taking their side. Take a look at why you need to give these boys a chance.
1. The simple guy will not leave you hanging.
He either wants you or doesn’t want you. He is not going to say ‘ I like you, but I have feelings for my ex,’ or ‘I can’t date right now, but I want to kiss you.’
2. He’ll make room for everything.
This boy has a life and has time for everything. He can balance work, friends, family, hobbies and a girlfriend. He won’t prioritise one thing over the other like the complicated guy.
3. He’s the kind of guy you can make your mom meet.
Because he’s stable, thinks about his future and has a direction in life.
4. He doesn’t want too many things.
The complicated guy wants pretty much everything. And when they are feeling low, they want nothing at all. Basically they’re a confused lot. The uncomplicated guy, on the other hand, has fixed desires. He’s not going to give you mixed signals.
5. He’s not bipolar.
He won’t switch between ‘Oh, I like you’ and ‘No! I don’t.’
6. He doesn’t create problems that don’t exist.
Unlike a complicated guy who can fight with you over just about anything.
7. There is no scope for drama with him.
He likes to keep things simple. And whatever it is, he’ll say it upfront. He does not have any hidden agenda. Thank god for that!
8. He won’t try to prove something all the time.
He doesn’t try to be someone else. He won’t claim to watch sitcoms just to connect with you or try to know about things that he doesn’t know about. Moreover, he’ll be open to learning from you.
9. His behaviour doesn’t change according to yours.
He is up for sorting things out, and won’t ignore calls or texts when he doesn’t have answers.
Being simple is not about being easy. It’s about being mature and considerate. Everyone has problems, but dealing with them and attending to those of other’s is what keeps life as it is. At the end of the day, we must realise that the world doesn’t revolve around us. The day we accept that, most of us will attain the rare status of being uncomplicated.